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What besideU is — and isn't.

Both — and that distinction matters. Organisations purchase besideU, and in doing so they give every manager, HR team, and employee access to structured bereavement support from day one.

For HR and managers, besideU provides the framework, guidance, and visibility to respond consistently and confidently. For employees, it means the organisation is ready before they even need to ask — so they're met with a clear, supported process rather than silence and uncertainty.

No. besideU works alongside your existing policy — it doesn't overwrite it. Maeve is trained on your specific policy documentation, so every interaction is grounded in what your organisation has already agreed.

If your current policy has gaps or is out of date, we can identify that as part of onboarding. The platform is designed to make your policy more useful in the moment — not replace it.

All of them. Grief happens in every organisation — regardless of size, sector, or structure. besideU is built to flex around the needs of each client, so whether you have 50 employees or 50,000, the platform is configured to the way your organisation works.

Because the moment it's needed is the worst possible time to prepare. When a bereavement occurs, a manager has minutes — not hours — to respond to an employee who is in shock. There's no time to read a policy document, brief HR, or draft a message from scratch.

Organisations with besideU in place respond consistently, confidently, and with care. Those without it fall back on individual instinct — and the variation in how employees are treated becomes an HR and retention problem in itself.

Statutory bereavement leave entitlements under the Parental Bereavement (Leave and Pay) Act 2018 create compliance obligations. besideU helps HR teams ensure those obligations are met every time, for every manager.
EAP & existing benefits

How besideU fits with what you already have.

EAPs are valuable — but they're designed for a different problem. An EAP provides reactive, confidential support once an employee decides to reach out. besideU sits at the organisational layer, before that point.

The gap typically looks like this:

  • EAPs don't tell a manager what to say in the first conversation
  • EAPs don't give HR visibility of which employees are bereaved and what's been done
  • EAPs don't ensure your bereavement policy is applied consistently across every manager
  • EAPs don't structure the return-to-work conversation or schedule check-ins

besideU integrates with your existing EAP — Maeve signposts employees to it at the right moment. The two work together, not in competition.

Broad mental health platforms are built for everyday wellbeing — stress, sleep, resilience. They're not designed for the specific, time-sensitive demands of bereavement, which requires immediate guidance for managers, process coordination for HR, and a structured pathway for the employee through leave, check-ins, and return to work.

besideU is purpose-built for that situation. It doesn't replace your general wellbeing provision — it fills a specific gap those platforms don't address.

besideU includes a free resource directory for clients without EAP provision, signposting employees to reputable bereavement support organisations including Cruse Bereavement Support, Child Bereavement UK, and the Samaritans.

If an employee needs clinical support and no contracted EAP is in place, there is always a clear, safe pathway available through the platform.

Maeve & AI safety

How Maeve works — and how it's kept safe.

Maeve operates differently depending on who she's supporting. For managers, she provides real-time guidance on what to say and do — drafting first messages, preparing check-in prompts, advising on return-to-work conversations — all grounded in your organisation's bereavement policy. For HR, she surfaces case progress, flags overdue actions, and provides an audit trail. For employees, she provides a private space to ask questions, understand their entitlements, and be signposted to further support.

In every mode, Maeve is advisory. She supports human judgement — she never replaces it.

We take this seriously — and we've built the architecture to match. Maeve is not designed to be the decision-maker. She is a structured support layer built around clinical governance, not a free-form chatbot.

Here is specifically how the risk is managed:

  • Maeve has a formal intended use statement. She is not a therapist, counsellor, mental health service, or emergency responder. Every output is advisory and subject to human judgement. This is embedded in the system itself — not just the terms of service.
  • Three completely separate modes. HR, manager, and employee modes run as separate system instances with separate context. A manager cannot see what an employee shared privately with Maeve. HR cannot access companion conversation content under any circumstances. Mode separation is enforced at the system level.
  • Red flag escalation is automatic. If Maeve detects signals of crisis — suicidal ideation, acute distress, inability to cope — the AI interaction ends immediately. The employee is directed to crisis support. The HR safety contact is notified with a name and timestamp only. Maeve does not attempt to manage a crisis; she routes out of it.
  • Conservative by design. The employee companion launches with session-only memory and conservative escalation thresholds. Higher-risk capabilities are staged and gated behind further clinical review.
  • Clinical sign-off is a hard gate. Every mode of Maeve requires sign-off from qualified advisers before it ships: a BACP-qualified grief counsellor for manager mode, a mental health professional and doctor for the employee companion, and digital health legal counsel for data and safeguarding. These are deployment gates — not optional reviews.
  • 100+ adversarial test scenarios before any enterprise deployment. Edge cases, ambiguous language, and deliberate stress tests — all written or approved by our clinical adviser. Failed scenarios result in a prompt revision and retest, not deployment.
  • Full audit trail and version control. Every red flag event is logged. Every change to Maeve's outputs is version-controlled and re-approved by the relevant adviser before going live.
besideU carries professional indemnity and cyber liability insurance. A full Data Processing Agreement is provided to every client on sign-up. If your procurement or legal team want to review our safety documentation, we'll provide it on request.

No — and this is an explicit constraint built into the system. Maeve is prohibited from diagnosing any mental health condition, clinically assessing suicide risk, providing medical advice, providing legal advice, or acting as an emergency service.

When an interaction touches one of those areas, Maeve redirects — to the organisation's EAP, to qualified professionals, or in an emergency, directly to crisis services. She is built to know the boundary and to route clearly when it is reached.

besideU requires sign-off from a clinical and legal advisory board before any version of Maeve is deployed. The board includes a BACP-qualified grief counsellor, a mental health professional, a doctor, and digital health legal counsel. Every material change to Maeve's outputs requires re-approval by the relevant adviser before going live. Annual full reviews are mandatory, and any red flag event triggers an immediate review.

Privacy & data

What we see, what we don't, and why.

No. Employee companion conversations are completely private. HR sees case management data — check-in completions, case status, return-to-work milestones — not the content of personal conversations with Maeve.

This is enforced at the system level. HR mode and employee mode run as separate instances with separate context pipelines. There is no mechanism — administrative or otherwise — to access companion conversation content.

The only exception is a genuine safety emergency. If Maeve's red flag escalation is triggered, the HR safety contact receives a notification containing only the employee's name and a timestamp — not the content of the conversation.

Yes. besideU is built and operated in compliance with UK GDPR. A full Data Processing Agreement is provided to every client organisation on sign-up. We have completed a Data Protection Impact Assessment covering the AI companion and its handling of special category data.

Every employee is clearly informed they are speaking to an AI before their first Maeve interaction. This disclosure is a legal requirement and it's embedded in the product — not buried in terms and conditions.

No. Employee data is never used to train external AI models. Conversation content from the employee companion is session-only at launch — nothing is stored beyond the active session. The only data retained is metadata (timestamps, classification events) used for safety governance and audit purposes.

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