The people you lose to grief don’t have to leave. Here’s the case for doing this properly.
Every HR team wants to support bereaved employees well. But between the manager who doesn’t know what to say, the employee who quietly disengages, and the organisation with no consistent process — good intentions rarely translate into good outcomes. Not because people don’t care. Because they don’t have the right tools.
Most managers have never been trained to respond to a bereavement. They want to do the right thing — they just don’t know what that looks like.
Not because of the loss. Because of how their organisation responded to it. A single poorly handled bereavement can cost you someone you can’t afford to lose.
Most organisations have a policy. Almost none have a process. Without structure, support depends entirely on which manager happens to be in the room.
The cost of getting this wrong isn’t just human. It’s the resignation you didn’t see coming. The manager who handled it badly and never knew. The employee who came back too soon and never fully recovered. besideU exists to close that gap — for every person, every time.
Bereavement support is a reputational need, not just a retention need.
besideU doesn’t replace the people in your organisation. It gives them what they need to show up properly — every time, without exception.
No guidance, no structure, no follow-up. The employee returns to work feeling unseen. Within months, they’re looking elsewhere.
Maeve guides the first message, schedules touchpoints, and ensures no one falls through the cracks — from day one through to return and beyond.
Every case handled differently. No audit trail. No visibility. HR exhausted by cases that could have been managed earlier, better, and more consistently.
One dashboard. Every active case. Every manager. Every touchpoint. HR stays informed without being the only person doing the work.
500+ hours spent on estate administration over 16 months — on top of their job. No support. No signposting. No one checking in.
Maeve is available at 3am, the morning before they go back, the anniversary nobody remembered. A consistent presence when it matters most.
ERA 2025 is raising governance expectations. Without a structured, auditable process, organisations are increasingly exposed.
Every touchpoint logged. Every case tracked. The evidence your organisation needs if a case is ever challenged.
The maths is straightforward. Retaining one person who might otherwise leave after a badly handled bereavement more than justifies the entire annual investment — for your whole organisation.
Return on investment
from preventing
one resignation
Around 2 in 10 of your employees will experience a bereavement this year. This isn’t a rare event — it’s a recurring certainty. besideU ensures your organisation is ready every single time.
Bereavement touches every part of an organisation. These are the areas where structured support creates lasting value.
A significant proportion of employees who experience a bereavement consider leaving within 12 months — not because of the loss, but because of how their organisation responded.
After a bereavement, employees spend over 500 hours across 16 months managing a loved one’s affairs. That burden doesn’t disappear when they return to work — it follows them in.
The Employment Rights Act 2025 is raising governance expectations around employee wellbeing. Organisations without a structured, evidenced approach face real and growing exposure.
74% of under-35s say they would leave a company that handled bereavement badly. That reputation spreads through teams, Glassdoor reviews, and referrals long before you notice.
Behind every retention statistic is a person who needed someone to show up for them — and an organisation that either did or didn’t. besideU makes sure your organisation always does. Not because HR has to chase it. Not because a manager remembered. Because the system takes care of it — every time, without exception.
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